Looking for someone to madly fall in love with!

What do we go looking for? Looks? The parlors on every streets and filters on every phone has made them cheap. They are in abundance now. Intelligence? No! Girls are dumb. We know that. We might go looking for someone smart, Oh they are so cunningly smart. Some of them. But intelligence is related to knowledge and people like company of knowledgeable person but people don't love the company because of that knowledge. Or else the world would have been sleeping with books not people. Character? Yeah it's a very important virtue to be in the list but what do you consider as a good or in our case excellent character? Virginity? No. Too vogue for that. Number of boyfriends/girlfriends? No. That just derives his/her stability. A warm kind heart? That would be discussing his/her nature. So what do we see? What do we look for? Because character is an illusion. It's like looking at the moon and wondering if there can be a better moon. An ideal moon! But we don't know an ideal moon and as  far as our imagination travels, we modify the moon with our little brains but we can't create an ideal moon. We must need a moon to modify it. That's what it is. You can fall for anyone. Anyone who exists. And then you pick and pluck the moon to make it better, take it closer to the ideal moon. But we went off topic here. Didn't we? We were trying to derive what do we look for while looking for a mate. So it's not looks neither intelligence. It is character but character cannot be looked at. So we skip that. So what is it? It's the similarities. How often do we see a stranger and not talk to him if he's supporting the same team we are? Or perhaps listening the same song we are used to go crazy after since years? It's about similarities. Human behavior has a distinct characteristic of socializing. We cannot live alone and the offer of having a person who understands you and has the same requirements as yours seems a pretty good deal to settle for. So similarities. Excluding sex, Have you noticed what gave the most intense pleasure from your lover? Was it the song she was murmuring suggested by you? Was it your pet that he likes to pet? It has to be something near that.

Some might suggest the opposite. I don't disagree with them totally. For instance, your partner will make you happier if he pets your dog even if he's not a dog person because he's trying to do something for you he usually won't do. But that sympathizes things, puts you in debts, and manipulates you towards guilt. Which at long term, affects your relationship. While on the other hand similarities binds you even closer. The more the similarities, the less the rivalry. But again some enjoy the healthy fights and differences. But it's also not for everyone. So maybe next time you open your window, it might help to know who do you want to enter. ;)